Hi People!
Hope everyone is doing good :)..... You guys may have thought that this guy is like Sooraj Barjatya who posts once in 6 months,year or whatever. Well, yes, to an extent, as when my Heart says you have to write on this and make people aware of the things & thoughts, then only I came here. Because "Heart" always do the right things in Life.
Well, there is a lot to share, so lets back to the Topic, and its not easy to anticipate from the Title I provided, that what I would want to communicate.
So, here it goes....We know that Life is a continuous learning & an experience, which teaches you many lessons of value.
So, at point or other you will learn a lesson that will make you cautious in future to not do the same again.
Here, I want to discuss today about "Love"and not only this but "Sincere Love"!!!
First let me clear the difference between two- Love is a beautiful feeling and can be defined in my terms as something when you know he/she is not "perfect" and it doesn't matter.
It prevails and exist in the whole world. I've seen so many couples who love each other & like spending time with each other. Many moved successfully , while a lot went through bad phases in terms of "Breakups" - today's trend ;). There are few close ones of mine who went from this phase and everyone knew how bad it is. The question arises Why if so much love was there... relationship was of say 7 years etc.??
There are 100 and variable reasons for each such "lovely" relationship but basic root cause was same - Lot of Demands, expectations, ambitions, dominance with less of understanding and care. People now-a-days set through very high expectations for the partner. For ex. a young guy will go to flower shop to pick a bouquet early morning & use to wait for hours beneath her apartment for when she woke up & he will give it to her...just to make her feel special. That's wonderful... Love is that feeling when you want to do all those sort of things which will make your companion happy - that's important.
But, at the same time if you are doing it everytime, then a wrong message has been conveyed and that of very high and un-realistic expectations. Then, even if you willn't get time to do all these beautiful things, then your partner starts complaining and so on. So, first set the rule as "No Complaints which are not genuine, and, No demands".
That's love of today. But now I come to my central and core point and that is "Sincere Love" - that's my terminology. It simply means "Selfless Love" that truly depends on 3 basic pillars - "Feelings", "Emotions" and "Sacrifice". This is what in the life of 27 years, am hardly able to find in today's generation.
This you often can see in your parents, grandparents... a love which is selfless, which understands every "gesture" of the partner, which is not at all dominant, which understands the "needs through Silence" as well. That's I call a beautiful love, which is rare in todays busy and fast world.
This is the type of love which apart from husband and wife can be found in a daughter - father, father - son, mother - son, brother - sister, but hard and tough in a girlfriend - boyfriend relationship. Because a father do all of the things, provide guidance, take care of your needs even when you are not with him... that's "selflessness". When that state of love one achieves, you can really feel the beauty of it and ecstasy (extreme happiness) embedded in it.
A beautiful example i want to recite here - one day I was watching one award show and a segment of 100 years of Indian cinema came and all the living legends of film fraternity were present there from Dilip sahab to hema malini, saira banu, jaya bhaduri, Manoj kumar, Rajesh khanna to name a few.
I closely observed how beautifully Saira Banu took care of & understood each and every gesture of Dilip kumar and been with him for every moment since it's really tough for him to do movements and speak because of age factor. I believe - If one loves you in true sense then he/she need to take care of everything related to you, be it your people, friends, pets, liking, disliking etc.
That's the Beauty of True Love - "Sincere Love" & I respect it because it's hard to find it in today's glittering & flamboyant world with Shrewd people around. And I believe I make it clear now to how the content resemble to the title?
It simply said that Selfless love is like a brightest "diamond" in this dark black Mine like world. And Believe me, these traits of Selfless love came & remain in you if you don't forget your middle-class roots, from where you came; no matter how big you became.
Because "LOVE" MAY END BUT "SELFLESS LOVE" CAN NEVER BE!!!
